‘Witchcraft and Religion have one thing in common,
They both want control…’
~John Hagee
Forgive me for rambling on this blog,
But so many thoughts are swirling thru my mind…
Thoughts of how I continually try to control life.
Thoughts of catching myself trying to be the Gate-Keeper
To the world around me…
I gaze at my life and at others lives and I realize
That most of us have at least one thing in common;
Most of us have experienced situations that make us feel out of control;
And that unsettles us…
So we naturally and instinctively
Try to gain control back,
As if we could….
It’s human nature.
We gather our little clan about us,
We plan and navigate our path,
We put locks on our doors,
And locks on our hearts,
And try to control any influences
That might try to harm us,
But the instant
Something bad and unwanted
Storms in our door without knocking
We realize,
We had zero control….
“Ah,” we think, as we analyze our strategy,
“This is my weak link, next time I’ll do
This different
And
That different…
I’ll shore up the walls more,
And hold back the tide better…”
But it never works.
As hard as we try with all of our money,
And with all of our might,
We cannot control
The world around us.
I know this because I have tried.
Oh how I have tried…
I have tried to control and manipulate
People and situations around me,
As if I were some grand chess master,
Trying to plan out and strategize the next move,
Trying to make everything work out wonderfully and perfect…
Tidy and neat, just as I imagine it to be.
It would be my version of Perfect.
Perfect.
No sickness for those around me,
No unhappiness for the ones I love,
And plenty of joy and laughter to fill the people around me.
I have even tried to manipulate and control God.
As if…
It’s very common when you are a mom
And you see forces beyond your control
Encroaching on you and yours,
To want to figure out a way to keep
Everything and everyone safe and happy.
But it never works…
When all is said and done in the end,
It never works.
When my children were young
I could control most of the influences around them..
I could lock doors and windows
To keep bad guys out.
And yet still,
Fever and sickness would come barging into
Ravage their young bodies,
And I would freeze…
Wondering what I had done wrong.
I would strategize and analyze,
And rethink how I could stop this enemy
From coming in again…
I would even bargain with God,
Trying to read my Bible more,
Spending more time in prayer,
As if that was the magical ticket,
To keep my family safe…
Safe.
The funny thing about it is,
God was the answer
And God still is the answer,
But I was using Him as a genie in a bottle,
And not as an Omniscient Savior.
I didn’t really trust that He Knows,
He Knows.
He knows the very end.
He does.
He completely sits outside of time
And watches with a perspective
We will never see.
He does not fret or worry,
Because he is All-Knowing.
Whenever I find myself fretting about a situation,
I realize I am not trusting….
I am not believing…
In my heart I do not believe
That God is who He says He is,
And a whisper of a doubt comes sliding into my heart and mind saying,
‘Will God really take care of you and yours?’
And the next thing you know
Fear has crept in,
And I am back to controlling,
Back to manipulating.
Sigh…
I know the Answer.
I do.
It Is God.
God Alone.
So throughout the day,
Sometimes hundreds of times per day,
I have to tell my mind to,
Be quiet,
Be still,
Trust God…
Trust God.
I wish I could finish this blog
Saying that now I am doing it all right,
But I can’t.
When situations beyond my control slip in,
I can still find myself doubting.
When fear begins it’s whispering,
And my soul begins fretting,
I catch myself trying to think of a magic formula
That would somehow fix…
Somehow make better….
My mind swirls and I begin to think,
“Maybe I should fast, and that would ease the situation, so I fast,
But I realize my fast was simply another form of control,
I cry and pray and read my Bible,
And I realize even that was fear based,
And not trust based,
And then I sigh….
And I go back into my prayer room,
Surrender myself to God,
Ask for forgiveness,
Let go of my fear,
Give up my control,
And with a trembling heart,
And quivering lips,
I surrender my situation once again to Him.
And Trust God.
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